Here’s a common question, usually filled with trepidation; “Which would you like first, the good news or the bad news?” This was the question the Universe posed to me last week, but it didn’t wait for my reply, it gave me the bad news first.
I had known for a time that my computer was ailing, but when it overheated and shut itself off I knew I had no choice; it needed some professional help.
And rather than take the time to research and check out computer repair shops nearby, I instead followed my impatient and impetuous nature, loaded up my computer in the nice travel case I have for it and went to the first computer service store that was open on a Saturday.
The man there seemed nice enough and explained what he would do to fix my computer, promising it would be like brand new! But I ignored the warning bells of my intuition clanging, as I paid for the costly service and signed a paper stating “no guarantee”. I just wanted my computer back to normal, and soon!
And of course my intuition was right, as I was soon to find out after getting my computer home, still full of spits and sputters, and once again overheating to the point of shutdown. So now it was on to phase two of how to get my computer back on track.
This time I listened to the little but very loud voice in my head and went to the computer repair shop that I should have gone to in the first place, the one I didn’t take the time to wait for because they were closed on Saturdays. And to make a long story short, I was able to easily get my computer fixed for a reasonable fee and it is better than brand new. Finally, some good news!
But wait, not so fast, I had one more little bout of “how well can you handle another challenge” from the Universe. This other problem came to light as I sat with lots of computer-free time on my hands.
Something or someone told me that I should probably try on the dress I had planned to wear for my son’s upcoming wedding in a month. Yes perhaps a good idea, why not just make sure it still fits because the last time I tried it on was last year. And I knew I had gained some weight but what a surprise when my “new” body did not fit well at all into this dress, oh dear. More bad news, now I have to go dress shopping!
Now for many women, this would not be construed as a bad thing, having to go shop for a pretty dress. But for me, I see clothes as a bit of a necessary evil, and have as few clothes as possible. I do not enjoy the clothes shopping experience one little bit, and honestly my favorite clothing store is Goodwill, where I discover lots of great finds in my price range – cheap!
And here’s the good news part of this story. At the “upscale” Goodwill in downtown Portland I managed to find a lovely and elegant black dress, Ann Taylor, that fits me and looks good on me – for $25! Good news, good news! And a sigh of relief that I don’t have to go to the mall.
I look back now on the computer ordeal and the dress ordeal, and see how it is that we need to have things go a bit out of kilter at times. We need to let the Universe play its “good news, bad news” game with us, or else how do we test our mettle here? I have to say that through it all I focused very hard on all the things going right in my life, and I saw so much to be thankful for. These things that happened to me were minor in the grand scheme of things, merely annoyances no matter how much my ego wanted to throw a tantrum. I stayed calm and emotionally balanced, and lo and behold it all came to pass as lots of good news in the end.
Flowers at the Crystal Springs Rhododendron Garden in Portland, Oregon